I'm moving away for a couple of weeks and my boyfriend is pretty upset that he can't have anything "physical" (by which he means hugs and kisses, not sex). He says he "needs" physical contact, so I was just wondering what the role of contact is in a relationship. In animals it's bonding, and maybe it's the same in humans?|||Its a normal part of a relationship but getting panicky 'cos you are going away for a couple of weeks seems to have underlying aspects.Did he also express hopes for your safe travel and indeed for your general well being or was he totally immersed in his self?|||It is just bonding, Its a way of showing love (:|||Its the same in human its a way to show that he love you and show affections. Or he just like hugging and kissing you just for the joy of it.|||Some people show affection through arts and poems, others prefer to show affection through touch. People find it easier to understand touch you find.|||it's most definitely bonding. but if you're coming back, your bf needs to get over it. physical contact in a relationship is something that can not be duplicated, it cannot be described and you think you know what it is, it's special beyond other human needs.
i'm going out of town for almost 4 weeks and my bf feels the same way. we both feel like how your bf feels, uneasy about not having each other. but i sure am glad my bf is patient. maybe that's something you really just need to tell him. and if he can't be patient, maybe it just ain't worth it anyway:)
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